Published in Sexography·PinnedMember-only“I Am Not a F*ck Boy. I Am a Male Slut.”What exactly is a f*ck boy? — “So what? I like to fuck.” “I just have a high sex drive.” “I am not a fuck boy. I am a male slut. There is nothing wrong with that.” I have heard a number of men make variations of this statement across social media platforms. Fuckboys get a bad…Sexuality4 min read
Published in Sexography·PinnedMember-only“So, Do You Like Big Cocks?”This is not the indicator of sexual prowess that men may think it is. — Do you like well-hung guys? Are you intimidated by huge dicks? Do you think you can take my big, fat cock? Are you woman enough? I hope you don’t mind guys with thick dicks? Do you like big cocks? I can’t even begin to tell you how many times I…Sexuality5 min read
Published in Fluency of Zara Everly·Jul 30Member-onlyGo Ask ZaraA semi-anonymous teenage confession — I did a lot of incredibly stupid things when I was a teenager. I was just reading Michelle Brown’s story about her own teen-induced stupidity and it made me think of my own past. It made me think of one incident specifically. I went through a pothead phase between the…Teenagers5 min read
Published in P.S. I Hate You·Jul 28Member-onlyRed Flags That I IgnoredWe all learn…eventually — A half hour before your first date, he cancels because his best friend invited him to the movies. He tells you that he had a child with another woman and hid this from his wife for over a year. …Hate2 min read
Published in P.S. I Hate You·Jul 15Member-onlyI Wrote Something on the Internet and Someone Disagreed with MeIt was more than one person and what happened was awesome — This person disagreed and presented their point of view thoughtfully and articulately. Better yet, they were civil and respectful, even though they did not agree with me. Occasionally, people do that. In presenting their point of view, they didn’t feel the need to imply that I was stupid or ignorant…Social Media3 min read
Published in Sensual: An Erotic Life·Jul 13Member-onlyIt Is Too Hot For UnderwearSummertime means dresses and no panties — As one could expect at this time of year, it is a hot and hazy day here today. I have this one dress that I absolutely love. This beauty is a long dress with an empire waist and spaghetti straps. …Sensuality3 min read
Published in P.S. I Hate You·Jun 30Member-onlyDon’t Talk To Grown Women As If They Were Little GirlsSpare me your condescension — I recently took issue with a man who counseled me to “Be a good girl.” He uttered these words after calling me “pretty one” and telling me that I must make my boyfriend proud. My answer? Simply, I wrote “ok…” How else could I answer this advice and compliment? Sure…Feminism4 min read
Published in Pollinate Magazine·Jun 28Member-onlyThe Sex RitualThe ritual that keeps us connected — It always starts in my head. Thinking about him. I think about acts, things I have done, and things that I have read about. This is not always a purposeful ritual. I don’t know if it ever is. I may masturbate. I may need to let off a little steam…Sexuality3 min read
Published in Enjoyable Sex·Jun 24Member-onlyIce Cubes Are Not on My Bucket ListToo cool for fucking with ice cubes — Ladies help me: I am trying to think of salacious subjects to write about. Any ideas? Nothing too kinky but definitely not too vanilla. Help! I started my conversation with a great group of girlfriends. …Sexuality3 min read
Jun 16Member-onlyThat Time When A Homeless Person Hugged MeAnd I was ok with it — About a year and a half ago, I traveled to Manhattan from my home on Long Island to meet up with a girlfriend. After having a wonderful day together, I headed back to Penn Station to catch the train home. First, I made a pit stop at the Long Island…Self5 min read
