Published in Sexography·PinnedSo, You Say You Want a Dick Up Your A$$?Well, it isn’t enough to have lots of lube — For a lot of people, a dick up the ass sounds like an enticing idea. At the same time, the first attempts at a dick up our ass don’t usually work out as well as we dreamed. It always sounded good to me to have a dick up my ass. As soon as I learned that anal sex was a sexual “thing,” I…Sexuality6 min read
Published in Sensual: An Erotic Life·PinnedThe Horrors of Being a Middle-Aged WomanOr jumping over and beyond the wall — I am done. Washed up. I have hit some sort of wall. My sexual market value (SMV) has plummeted. Verily, I believe that it has crashed and burned. I may have some value for myself (although god knows, why I would. I must be delusional) but that really doesn’t matter…Sexuality6 min read
Published in Fluency of Zara Everly·May 6How Are You A Snob?Aren’t we all a little snobby about something? — “You’re on a first date, the guy says ‘I’m taking you to the best Italian restaurant ever, the Olive Garden’… What do you do?” This post popped up in a Facebook singles group that I am in. I hate Olive Garden. A lot of people do. Well, let me rephrase…Self5 min read
Published in Writers’ Blokke·May 3Ten Things You (May Not) Know About MeAnd maybe you will care — 1- My name is not really Zara! I think this should be obvious but alas, it is not. My real name is rather boring. Besides that, my real name is well, real and so connected with my real life. I write a lot about sexuality and feminism. Those two factors make me a prime target for not…Zara7 min read
Published in Sexography·Apr 23Young Men: Wear Your Condoms!I am going to pass on your raw dog. — You can tell who came of age during the AIDS panic. Men of a certain age use condoms and men of another don’t. At least that is what my lived experiences have shown me. I have been intimate with men ranging from fourteen years younger than I am to twelve…Sexuality6 min read
Published in Sensual: An Erotic Life·Apr 12Guys: Let Us Hear Your Sex NoisesI love to hear that my man is enjoying himself — My ex fucked like a ninja. When I say ninja, I really mean that he was very quiet. Overall, he is a fairly loud man but when he fucked, he was quiet. I asked him why he was so quiet when we had sex. He said it was because he…Essay4 min read
Published in Pollinate Magazine·Apr 9Seduction and DeliveranceI offer it: will you take it? — Poetry1 min readPhoto by ANDREAS BODEMER on UnsplashSeduction and DeliveranceI offer it: will you take it?4584583
Published in Writers’ Blokke·Apr 5Getting My Writer’s Groove BackOr trying to in the midst of the mess of Medium and my life — All art is useless, Oscar Wilde I did not write much at all in the month of March. One of my sons has been having some confounding medical issues. …Writing3 min read
Published in Fluency of Zara Everly·Apr 5Just Read My Fucking StoryForget about those other jokers — Read my story. Just fucking do it, ok? Forget the others. Alright, you don’t have to forget them. Just make sure you read me too. Do us a favor and read me first. Then you can get to the other jokers. Let’s face it: we all know I got the…Writing2 min read
Published in Sensual: An Erotic Life·Apr 5Pussy Lying In WaitI only look innocent — Side by side, naked in bed. I take the last drag of my cigarette and reach over to grab the ashtray that is on the nightstand on his side of the bed. …Essay2 min read
