This is not the indicator of sexual prowess that men may think it is. — Do you like well-hung guys? Are you intimidated by huge dicks? Do you think you can take my big, fat cock? Are you woman enough? I hope you don’t mind guys with thick dicks? Do you like big cocks? I can’t even begin to tell you how many times I…

A semi-anonymous teenage confession — I did a lot of incredibly stupid things when I was a teenager. I was just reading Michelle Brown’s story about her own teen-induced stupidity and it made me think of my own past. It made me think of one incident specifically. I went through a pothead phase between the…

We all learn…eventually — A half hour before your first date, he cancels because his best friend invited him to the movies. He tells you that he had a child with another woman and hid this from his wife for over a year. He also tells you that it is his ex-wife’s fault that…

It was more than one person and what happened was awesome — This person disagreed and presented their point of view thoughtfully and articulately. Better yet, they were civil and respectful, even though they did not agree with me. Occasionally, people do that. In presenting their point of view, they didn’t feel the need to imply that I was stupid or ignorant…

Summertime means dresses and no panties — As one could expect at this time of year, it is a hot and hazy day here today. I have this one dress that I absolutely love. This beauty is a long dress with an empire waist and spaghetti straps. When I wear it, I feel a little bit like…

Spare me your condescension — I recently took issue with a man who counseled me to “Be a good girl.” He uttered these words after calling me “pretty one” and telling me that I must make my boyfriend proud. My answer? Simply, I wrote “ok…” How else could I answer this advice and compliment? Sure…

The ritual that keeps us connected — It always starts in my head. Thinking about him. I think about acts, things I have done, and things that I have read about. This is not always a purposeful ritual. I don’t know if it ever is. I may masturbate. I may need to let off a little steam…

Too cool for fucking with ice cubes — Ladies help me: I am trying to think of salacious subjects to write about. Any ideas? Nothing too kinky but definitely not too vanilla. Help! I started my conversation with a great group of girlfriends. I have been friends with these ladies for over thirteen years now and we talk…

And I was ok with it — About a year and a half ago, I traveled to Manhattan from my home on Long Island to meet up with a girlfriend. After having a wonderful day together, I headed back to Penn Station to catch the train home. First, I made a pit stop at the Long Island…